Ashes to Ashes, Dust to Dust?
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Wood Ashes
What Human Ashes look like after cremation

Definition

Ash is the powdery residue produced as a result of burning a substance. There are different types of ashes that result from combustible material(s) being thoroughly burned or oxidized by chemical means to give a solid residue. These include coal ash, fly ash, cremation ash (referring to the remains of a cadaver after it has been cremated) and wood ash, among others. These remains are non-aqueous and non-gaseous after complete combustion.

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Wood Ashes
What Human Ashes look like after cremation

Human body components and ashes

What do cremated ashes or remains consist of?

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The human body is wonderfully complex and composed of a variety of chemical components. While water is the most abundant compound in the human body, there are also large reserves of oxygen, hydrogen, nitrogen, carbon, phosphorous and calcium, as well as the essential elements of sodium, potassium, chlorine, magnesium and sulphur to a lesser degree.

Of course, water is the first thing removed by the intense heat in the process. After it is gone, the body is reduced to cremation ashes. These ash remains have the same chemical signature that the body had before it was cremated.

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Elements Contained in Human Body

The exact composition of the body varies greatly from one person to another. The food we eat, the water we drink and where we live plays a big role in what gets stored in our fat and other tissues in the body. Bones give structure to the shape of the body and contribute significantly to weight and height. Because it is possible that someone who is obese will possess more fat than water, what is stored in the fat in a body will have a significant impact on the chemical signature of the remains or ashes from cremation.

The intense heat in the cremation process consumes all carbonaceous materials in the body (those rich in carbon) as well as all organic traces and turn all of them into ashes. Carbonates and calcium phosphates keep the skeleton solid and durable, but most organic compounds are converted into metal oxides. Inorganic compounds may remain as they were during life or may be oxidized. The exact percentage of each element or compound within cremation remains or ashes varies from person to person. No two samples of human ashes will be precisely the same in terms of elemental composition. This is further seen while turning these ashes into diamonds that no two cremation diamonds are the same.

first image showing human body structural composition Human Body is Mainly Composed of
Skeleton, Tissues, and Blood

What do cremated ashes look like?

After cremation, the remains or ashes are moved to a cooling container. Large metal components such as hip joints are removed, and a magnet is passed over them to remove any smaller metallic components. The bone fragments are then reduced to a uniform pale to dark grey powder similar in appearance and texture to coarse sand.

This comparison to coarse sand is very different from what many expect human ashes will look like after cremation. Many people expect a light, flaky material similar to wood ash. This misunderstanding comes from the fact that cremated remains are primarily bone. Soft tissues are consumed in the intense heat of the cremation process thus the ashes produced is made mainly of bones.

How much do cremated ashes weigh?

The fact that cremation ashes consist mainly of bone means that height, rather than the weight, determines how much ashes a cremated body makes. The average adult male result is about six pounds (of cremated remains). This is around two pounds more than an adult female. Cremation ashes take up about 200 cubic inches of volume on average.

second image showing human body structural composition Human Body is Mainly Composed of
Skeleton, Tissues, and Blood

The remains or ashes are usually taken to the family of the deceased as soon as possible after cremation. Most crematoriums take between two and ten days for the remains to be ready for collection by the family.

The cremation process

Cremation is usually carried out near to the place of death or when the body is transferred to a crematorium and involves breaking down the cadaver to ashes in a chamber designed to withstand high temperatures. The length of time needed for this depends on a number of factors such as the time of day, type of crematorium technology and size (height and weight) of the cadaver. On average, the entire process takes between one and a half to four hours.

image showing a cremation chamber from which human ashes will be gotten Cremation Chamber

Before cremation can begin the crematorium technician should have obtained the consent of the closest surviving member(s) of the deceased. It is also necessary to secure a medical certificate from the coroner or the doctor stating the cause of death for cremation to take place. This is because, obviously after cremation with all turned to ashes, the body cannot be exhumed as can occur with a traditional ground burial.

Firstly, it is important for the cremator to remove any materials, such as a pacemaker, that would cause an explosion during cremation. A funeral service is then usually held in the chapel with family and friends in attendance. After the service, the casket is moved to the crematorium where details and identity are recorded. The casket, which is made up of flammable materials, is then placed in the crematorium chamber.

Temperatures in the chamber rise steadily to an average of 1800-2100 degrees Fahrenheit. You may surely ask yourself what to do with the remains after cremation if your are new to this but well, the remains or ashes are placed in a cooling chamber and later removed to a transfer container. Metallic residues are removed from the remains for recycling. The remains are then reduced and moved to a suitable container that is labelled for identification.

Finally, the ashes are put in an urn and taken to the family of the deceased, or collected. The family can then decide on how to dispose of the ashes in accordance with the wishes of the deceased.

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Differences between human and animal (pet) cremation

Cremation is perhaps the most ethical and cost-effective way of disposing of remains or ashes, both human and animal, and takes place within the same range of temperature. In both cases, you will find almost the same chemical composition of ashes. The only difference is the length of time involved. Clearly, small animals, such as a rabbit or cat will take a shorter time to cremate compared to larger animals, such as horses.

During cremation, only one body can be cremated at a time unless there is a special arrangement to cremate family members who died together. However, crematoriums will conduct mass cremations for more than one animal.

Human beings are usually cremated in privately owned crematoriums near funeral homes. Animals are cremated in crematoriums that are owned by the local city or county organizations.

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image showing an urn for human aches A Typical Urn

What is an urn and what is its purpose?

Cremation remains or ashes are typically stored in an urn, a tall rounded vase, typically with a stem and base. Urns for ashes are usually ornamental and can be constructed from ceramic, metal, wood or other materials. Many are decorated with a theme depicting the life of the deceased or their loved ones.

An urn can be purchased from the funeral home or made specifically for the deceased. Most state laws do not require the bereaved family to purchase an urn from the funeral home. If the cremated remains are to be displayed during the funeral service, most funeral homes offer rental display urns for ashes. However, prior arrangements can be made with the funeral home to get an urn before cremation.

It is important to check the dimensions of the urn before purchasing. There are different designs for different purposes. Keep in mind that the average cremation remains or ashes amount to around 200 cubic inches. Urn manufacturers list the capacity of urns both in terms of the cubic inches and the weight of the person who was cremated.

image showing well designed urns for human or pet ashes A Set of Elegant Urns for ashes

The exterior measurements are also important. If the urn needs to be sited in a columbarium niche or other specific place, it’s vital to ensure that the urn will fit the location.

As many people store their cremated remains in an urn at home, it is important to make sure the design of the urn fits on the shelf or mantle. A biodegradable urn is usually preferred if the family intends to bury the cremation ashes in a family burial plot. Sometimes a seed is included that may grow into a tree at the burial site.

image 2 showing urns for human or pet ashes A Set of Elegant Urns

Sometimes a water-soluble urn can also be used. This floats for some time beforegradually sinking representing the dignified passing on of a loved one.

How to dispose or preserve cremated ashes?

One of the benefits of cremation is that it allows loved ones the opportunity to memorialize the deceased in a unique way that reflects the person. There are many different ways to manage the disposal or preservation of ashes. In North America, disposal is fairly evenly split among burying the cremation remains or ashes, keeping them, and scattering them.

Where to scatter (spread) the cremated ashes or remains?

Scattering is practiced by many people. Nearly half of all cremated persons have chosen where they want their remains or ashes to be scattered. Usually, family and friends gather together at a location that held special meaning for the deceased and scatter the ashes there. Forest, mountains, rivers, or an ocean are all popular choices. Most countries do not have law restricting the scattering of ashes, unless, of course, there is a desire to scatter the ashes on someone else’s private property. The most common places include:

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  • On a grave - This is the most difficult way of scattering ashes because many cemeteries do not allow scattering of ashes without authorization.
  • Personal garden - Scattering the ashes of a loved one in his or her garden does not require the same formalities as cemeteries or family graves.
  • Overseas scattering - This involves transporting the ashes to another country for scattering. However, before engaging in this practice, it is important to know if there are laws in that country regarding the scattering of ashes.
image 2 showing loved one cremation ashes floating away in a basket on water Ashes Floating Away
  • Use of a Viking longboat urn – During this event the urn is placed on water to drift, then set alight. The fire consumes the urn as it drifts away.Note that when scattering ashes in water, the water should be around 600 feet deep. Some countries and states require deeper waters. When scattering ashes into the water (sea, ocean, lake or river) anything jettisoned with ashes should be biodegradable within 30 days.
  • Float away - The remains are put in a biodegradable balloon that is filled with helium then released.
  • Airborne - Scattering from an airplane is possible for disposing ashes over a large area.
  • Some ashes are even sent into space. This is commonly carried out by a company known as Elysium.
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How to scatter (spread) the cremated ashes or remains?

Commonly practiced ways to scatter ashes include:

  • Casting ashes into the wind (it is important to check wind direction first).
  • Trenching ashes.
  • Ringing ashes (around a tree for example).
  • Raking ashes.
  • Green burial scattering through the use of a biodegradable urn.

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Most religions have their own etiquettes regarding the scattering of ashes. According to the Buddhists, the scattering of ashes is not wholly accepted though it is viewed as a charitable act. Among the Catholics, this idea is not entirely accepted whereas among the congregation of the Church of England, scattering is done only on designated land by the bishop. In the Hindu community, they do not allow the ashes back home after cremation. Scattering should be done 14 days after cremation. Usually, the ashes are cast into a river, preferably the Ganges.

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How to bury ashes?

  • Burial- Urn burial sites are usually relatively cheaper compared to traditional burial sites.
  • Columbarium- This is a specially-designed building that houses the urn. This gives family and friends the opportunity to visit and view the urn. Urn niches are usually rented out on a lease basis and, if not renewed, the ashes are strewn or buried.
  • At home- This is a very inexpensive way to dispose the remains, especially when buried in the backyard or kept in an urn that placed somewhere in the home. Knowing that the cremated remains of a loved one are always nearby can be a great comfort to those grieving.
  • Entombing a crypt in the mausoleum – A method that is common with Roman Catholics.

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Columbarium in Père Lachaise Cemetery

Creative uses of ashes

Standard ashes are used for many purposes,such as enriching compost, hiding stains on paving, melting ice and cleaning glass fireplaces, among others. Clearly, it would be unethical to use human ashes for such purposes. However, human ashes can be used in the making of items to honour and remember the deceased, such as;

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  • A certified diamond(these can be made invarious carat grades, sizes, colours and cuts).
  • Inserted into an hourglass mantle.
  • Mixed with paint and used to create a portrait of the deceased.
  • Put in the lead of a pencil with a personalised inscription.
  • Mixed with tattoo ink before application.
  • The creation of a 3D bust in the likeness of the deceased.
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  • Encasing in a jewel, such as when making a memorial piece of jewellery.
  • Some ashes are even put into fireworks in order to create a colourful light show.

Sometimes, ashes are integrated into other objects, such as when Walter Morrison, the creator of the Frisbee, had his ashes made into Frisbees to be given to friends and relatives as a souvenir. Mostly, this is done to create a memorial piece that can be valued by family and friends.

In the future, it’s expected there will be more sophisticated methods devised to dispose of ashes. In the meantime, environmental friendly means of disposing the ashes such as using biodegradable urns for ashes are highly recommended.

Diamonds made from human ashes

It is easier today that a person's ashes can be turned into a memorial diamond than it was many years ago. These laboratory produced memorial diamonds are real diamonds with the same chemical composition and physical structure as natural diamonds, while their carbon source coming from your loved one ashes. This difference makes the diamond made from human ashes more valuable as it is part of the everlasting love.

Memorial diamonds from human ashes cost much less than natural diamonds making it affordable for each person to cherish his loved one with such a unique keepsake. Such ashes to diamonds have a unique cost with Lonité.

Cremation – a popular choice

It is evident that cremation is a common practice that is gaining popularity around the world, due to low costs and the fact that it is an environmentally-friendly practice. Technology used in the cremation process has also meant lower emissions and pollution produced.

People have diverse cultures and traditions which influence how they preserve or dispose of the cremation remains or ashes. However, it is important to check local regulations before proceeding with any disposal of your loved one cremation ashes.